How birth changes men
a labyrinth or a shortcut to men’s psyche postpartum
It’s only a recent trend that men started to be present for their wife’s births, but like everything in human psyche evolves, birth does as well. This evolution does include men. A trend that is becoming part of the evolution, is making a markant influence on the families who choose to be born in togetherness. Men in Slovakia, normally drink in a bar while their wife cuts through her own edges, “ fighting” for her life and greeting their baby with a random doctor. But even dads in Slovakia are stepping into realization that arrival of an offspring is a significant event and we are now taking into acknowledgmwnt the size of transformation a mother has to go through.
*note, may 18th I am holding a community call called SERENE MOTHERLAND for future moms & sisters who want to dismentle beliefs about motherhood. Subscribe as paid and get your invite via email.
Yes, birth is not for all men, but, every men is offered an oportunity to look at the parts that won’t allow him to witness something so profoundly special.
Is it their pride that makes them thin they are not classified enough to be there? A doctor that has knoledge is classified enough to make ordiels about the life of his future child?
Many men are terrified of the unknown. Not knowing how the greatest mystery af all will unfold, is so scary that they rather choose to stay behind the curtains.
What if a man is willing to face his pride, fears, and accept the worst scenarios made by their head? Let’s find out together.
further on, I will discuss the impact of birth, family, on men, I will walk you through a pregnancy innitiation ritual we did before Yuka’s breech birth.
The mysterium created by two
Life is conceived my the masculine and feminine equally. They dance in the dark, naked and open to welcome the heighest potential brought from the skies to earth, a quest only directed by God.
The transformation in the female container is instant, enlarging boobs, hormonal rollercoaster, nesting, vivid dreams. How do men experience the anticipation of the biggest event im their life?